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		<title>By: Rachel</title>
		<link>http://gailvazoxlade.com/blog/archives/903/comment-page-1#comment-17273</link>
		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2009 17:22:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Money Coach

I totally agree (for me) with the Debt Snowball!  I love it.  Its great to see debt by debt disappearing and being deleted from the total I owe.  And the difference in interest for me (total over repayment time) is about 1/4 of the amount I pay monthly on the debt to have it gone!  Having said that I don&#039;t have any really high interest debts so for me its not so bad.</description>
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<p>I totally agree (for me) with the Debt Snowball!  I love it.  Its great to see debt by debt disappearing and being deleted from the total I owe.  And the difference in interest for me (total over repayment time) is about 1/4 of the amount I pay monthly on the debt to have it gone!  Having said that I don&#8217;t have any really high interest debts so for me its not so bad.</p>
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		<title>By: Maureen</title>
		<link>http://gailvazoxlade.com/blog/archives/903/comment-page-1#comment-17271</link>
		<dc:creator>Maureen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2009 16:32:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When we started towards our debt freedom we didn&#039;t have a clue what we were doing and Til Debt was still almost two years away from its first broadcast.  So we winged it and now that I have learned a lot  I can see how we could have done things better and saved money in the process - but we got it done.

The first thing that we did of course was to stop all spending.  Then we got caught up on the &quot;living&quot; bills that were behind -mortgage, hydro, phone  etc. - while paying only the minimums on all the other debts.  Nothing to the bank of Mom and Pop at first of course since they were the only ones not sending threatening letters - only doing that  heavy sighing and rolling their eyes thing.

When we got caught up (and boy was that a relief and a sense of accomplishment) and started following a budget we started to pay off the other debts.  We did what I have now learned is called the snowball plan.  We paid the minimums on everything except the smallest debt and for that one we put as much on it as we could.  When it was paid we moved on to the next smallest debt.  

In the beginning it really never occurred to me to check out the interest rates.  All I saw was the balance line and wanted to get something paid off as soon as possible so the smallest amount seemed the way to go.  

We did this snowball thing until we had 3 debts paid off then I discovered Til Debt and learned not to be even stupider than I had been.  

The first thing we did was to try to get a low interest consolidation loan but were refused because the Bank basically said that we had all the loans they were going to give us and that we had blown our chances.  Condescending gits.  

So then we transferred as many of the high interest credit cards to the lowest interest card as we could and I started calling the others asking for lower rates.  Thanks Gail but da! why didn&#039;t I think of that?  

I was quite successful and got one lowered to 5% until the entire balance was paid off.

From that point on we paid the higher interest debts aggressively and paid the minimum on the lower ones.

I have to say that using the snowball method (pay of the lower balance amount debt first) was much more satisfying because we actually saw progress - and fairly quickly -  however - the smart way is to pay off the higher interest debts aggressively because of course every month you are getting wacked with huge interest.  

The high interest card that I eventually got down to 5% had $12,000 on it and the original interest rate was 24% so that was about $240 every month in interest.  At 5% it was $50.  We had another card with the same interest rate and we could not get them to lower it so they got all of our attention.

We used both methods of debt payment and both worked with different benefits.  We all have to tweak our plans and go with what works and what keeps us motivated.  

We took a long time to get debt free but never wavered (because I was just sooooooo scared about what we had narrowly avoided) but it was HARD and BORING so I have to agree with Gail - faster is better.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When we started towards our debt freedom we didn&#8217;t have a clue what we were doing and Til Debt was still almost two years away from its first broadcast.  So we winged it and now that I have learned a lot  I can see how we could have done things better and saved money in the process &#8211; but we got it done.</p>
<p>The first thing that we did of course was to stop all spending.  Then we got caught up on the &#8220;living&#8221; bills that were behind -mortgage, hydro, phone  etc. &#8211; while paying only the minimums on all the other debts.  Nothing to the bank of Mom and Pop at first of course since they were the only ones not sending threatening letters &#8211; only doing that  heavy sighing and rolling their eyes thing.</p>
<p>When we got caught up (and boy was that a relief and a sense of accomplishment) and started following a budget we started to pay off the other debts.  We did what I have now learned is called the snowball plan.  We paid the minimums on everything except the smallest debt and for that one we put as much on it as we could.  When it was paid we moved on to the next smallest debt.  </p>
<p>In the beginning it really never occurred to me to check out the interest rates.  All I saw was the balance line and wanted to get something paid off as soon as possible so the smallest amount seemed the way to go.  </p>
<p>We did this snowball thing until we had 3 debts paid off then I discovered Til Debt and learned not to be even stupider than I had been.  </p>
<p>The first thing we did was to try to get a low interest consolidation loan but were refused because the Bank basically said that we had all the loans they were going to give us and that we had blown our chances.  Condescending gits.  </p>
<p>So then we transferred as many of the high interest credit cards to the lowest interest card as we could and I started calling the others asking for lower rates.  Thanks Gail but da! why didn&#8217;t I think of that?  </p>
<p>I was quite successful and got one lowered to 5% until the entire balance was paid off.</p>
<p>From that point on we paid the higher interest debts aggressively and paid the minimum on the lower ones.</p>
<p>I have to say that using the snowball method (pay of the lower balance amount debt first) was much more satisfying because we actually saw progress &#8211; and fairly quickly &#8211;  however &#8211; the smart way is to pay off the higher interest debts aggressively because of course every month you are getting wacked with huge interest.  </p>
<p>The high interest card that I eventually got down to 5% had $12,000 on it and the original interest rate was 24% so that was about $240 every month in interest.  At 5% it was $50.  We had another card with the same interest rate and we could not get them to lower it so they got all of our attention.</p>
<p>We used both methods of debt payment and both worked with different benefits.  We all have to tweak our plans and go with what works and what keeps us motivated.  </p>
<p>We took a long time to get debt free but never wavered (because I was just sooooooo scared about what we had narrowly avoided) but it was HARD and BORING so I have to agree with Gail &#8211; faster is better.</p>
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		<title>By: Canadian Personal Finance Blog &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Random Thoughts on a Dieing PC</title>
		<link>http://gailvazoxlade.com/blog/archives/903/comment-page-1#comment-17255</link>
		<dc:creator>Canadian Personal Finance Blog &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Random Thoughts on a Dieing PC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2009 06:13:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Gail Vaz-Oxlade puts it all nicely into perspective with Put Up or Shut Up, I really like the way Gail writes in her blog, a little grittier than her TV show, Testify [...]</description>
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		<title>By: MP</title>
		<link>http://gailvazoxlade.com/blog/archives/903/comment-page-1#comment-17251</link>
		<dc:creator>MP</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2009 02:27:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It took me one year to get consumer debt free (the mortgage got paid off in that period too so it helped as I redirected what I had been paying on the mortgage to the debt).  I could have done it faster, but I wasn&#039;t smart about it, and didn&#039;t put myself on a budget.  For some reason, long after I got debt free, I decided to try out Gail&#039;s budget, worked all the numbers properly (it helps when you have a software money management program) and began tracking all my spending, including cash.  Amazingly enough, I began saving close to 25% of my gross income and if I stick with the budget I can move leftover money into planned spending (like xmas shopping, and those darn new tires I need for the car in a few months).  I guess I&#039;m making up for lost time.  But now that I see the savings growing, I don&#039;t want to go back to old ways.  And that&#039;s the key I guess.

I set my first financial goal after becoming debt free of 6 months of expenses in an emergency fund by the end of 2010.  I&#039;m 20% there...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It took me one year to get consumer debt free (the mortgage got paid off in that period too so it helped as I redirected what I had been paying on the mortgage to the debt).  I could have done it faster, but I wasn&#8217;t smart about it, and didn&#8217;t put myself on a budget.  For some reason, long after I got debt free, I decided to try out Gail&#8217;s budget, worked all the numbers properly (it helps when you have a software money management program) and began tracking all my spending, including cash.  Amazingly enough, I began saving close to 25% of my gross income and if I stick with the budget I can move leftover money into planned spending (like xmas shopping, and those darn new tires I need for the car in a few months).  I guess I&#8217;m making up for lost time.  But now that I see the savings growing, I don&#8217;t want to go back to old ways.  And that&#8217;s the key I guess.</p>
<p>I set my first financial goal after becoming debt free of 6 months of expenses in an emergency fund by the end of 2010.  I&#8217;m 20% there&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Ajana</title>
		<link>http://gailvazoxlade.com/blog/archives/903/comment-page-1#comment-17249</link>
		<dc:creator>Ajana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2009 02:11:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It took me two years to be debt free and in that time I bought no new clothes and only one pair of shoes. Why? Because the sense of freedom and relief from having no debt was stronger than any desire to buy a piece of material (and I live in Hong Kong where shopping is a &#039;national&#039; pastime!). 

The letter writer should realise people survive just fine not buying new clothes. And that a brief high from shopping is nothing - and I mean NOTHING - like the long-lasting high from that final payment.

And I would like to share a new word with people; actually it&#039;s an old English word. 

Fornale:  to spend one&#039;s money before it has been earned.

May you only have to use it when referring to others. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It took me two years to be debt free and in that time I bought no new clothes and only one pair of shoes. Why? Because the sense of freedom and relief from having no debt was stronger than any desire to buy a piece of material (and I live in Hong Kong where shopping is a &#8216;national&#8217; pastime!). </p>
<p>The letter writer should realise people survive just fine not buying new clothes. And that a brief high from shopping is nothing &#8211; and I mean NOTHING &#8211; like the long-lasting high from that final payment.</p>
<p>And I would like to share a new word with people; actually it&#8217;s an old English word. </p>
<p>Fornale:  to spend one&#8217;s money before it has been earned.</p>
<p>May you only have to use it when referring to others. <img src='http://gailvazoxlade.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Meg from FruWiki</title>
		<link>http://gailvazoxlade.com/blog/archives/903/comment-page-1#comment-17247</link>
		<dc:creator>Meg from FruWiki</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2009 00:30:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think this is key to keep in mind:

&quot;...if we completely stopped having any form of a life, we would still have at least 3 years left to pay down all our debt. &quot;

So, by their calculations, no matter what their intensity, they have a long way to go. In cases like that, I think it is worth paying a little more in interest in time to come up with something that is SUSTAINABLE for THEM. Otherwise, they ARE going to run out of steam no matter how much they want to get out of debt. It&#039;s easy to stand back and say that they should just suck it up and not buy ANYTHING but necessities for the next three years, but that&#039;s unrealistic for 99.9% of people. What they need is to find BALANCE so that they can keep going in the right direction.

I speak from experience here. My husband and I tried to just &quot;stop spending&quot; but we weren&#039;t ready. Heck, we still aren&#039;t ready to stop buying everything but necessities -- and I don&#039;t think we will ever be ready to do that, not for YEARS, at least. So, we&#039;d try for a little while then end up feeling frustrated and go on a shopping binge, getting further into debt. 

Now, yes, we are still in debt. And we will be for a few years at our current rate. However, we have an emergency fund, we&#039;re putting a significant portion of our income towards the debt, and, most importantly, we are HAPPY with our lives NOW (which, by the way, means MUCH LESS &quot;retail therapy&quot;). That doesn&#039;t mean that we don&#039;t look forward to being out of debt. We do -- VERY MUCH, in fact. However, we aren&#039;t putting our lives on hold. Fortunately, we have found a lot of ways to cut costs as well as a lot of free and cheap ways to make our lives better so that we can achieve our goals without being miserable and still enjoying those indulgences that really do matter to us. And, as time goes by, we&#039;ve learned new ways to be frugal and so are continuing to pick up steam.

Plus, another great thing about our pace is that I can truly see us keeping our current lifestyle long term, helping us build wealth after we&#039;re out of debt instead of getting us back into debt. That&#039;s perhaps the greatest benefit of finding a sustainable balance!

Bottom line, when you have BIG debt to tackle, what matters most is sustaining it till the end -- not how intense you are over the short term. Slow and steady wins the race!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think this is key to keep in mind:</p>
<p>&#8220;&#8230;if we completely stopped having any form of a life, we would still have at least 3 years left to pay down all our debt. &#8221;</p>
<p>So, by their calculations, no matter what their intensity, they have a long way to go. In cases like that, I think it is worth paying a little more in interest in time to come up with something that is SUSTAINABLE for THEM. Otherwise, they ARE going to run out of steam no matter how much they want to get out of debt. It&#8217;s easy to stand back and say that they should just suck it up and not buy ANYTHING but necessities for the next three years, but that&#8217;s unrealistic for 99.9% of people. What they need is to find BALANCE so that they can keep going in the right direction.</p>
<p>I speak from experience here. My husband and I tried to just &#8220;stop spending&#8221; but we weren&#8217;t ready. Heck, we still aren&#8217;t ready to stop buying everything but necessities &#8212; and I don&#8217;t think we will ever be ready to do that, not for YEARS, at least. So, we&#8217;d try for a little while then end up feeling frustrated and go on a shopping binge, getting further into debt. </p>
<p>Now, yes, we are still in debt. And we will be for a few years at our current rate. However, we have an emergency fund, we&#8217;re putting a significant portion of our income towards the debt, and, most importantly, we are HAPPY with our lives NOW (which, by the way, means MUCH LESS &#8220;retail therapy&#8221;). That doesn&#8217;t mean that we don&#8217;t look forward to being out of debt. We do &#8212; VERY MUCH, in fact. However, we aren&#8217;t putting our lives on hold. Fortunately, we have found a lot of ways to cut costs as well as a lot of free and cheap ways to make our lives better so that we can achieve our goals without being miserable and still enjoying those indulgences that really do matter to us. And, as time goes by, we&#8217;ve learned new ways to be frugal and so are continuing to pick up steam.</p>
<p>Plus, another great thing about our pace is that I can truly see us keeping our current lifestyle long term, helping us build wealth after we&#8217;re out of debt instead of getting us back into debt. That&#8217;s perhaps the greatest benefit of finding a sustainable balance!</p>
<p>Bottom line, when you have BIG debt to tackle, what matters most is sustaining it till the end &#8212; not how intense you are over the short term. Slow and steady wins the race!</p>
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		<title>By: Catherine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Catherine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 23:08:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No aspersions from me.  I live in a glass house so won&#039;t be throwing any stones.
I have been actively trying to pay down our LOC.  Every little bit helps and encourages me.  It took time to accumulate the debt and I know it won&#039;t go away overnight.  I had some pretty stupid years till I found Gail.  Found it interesting with the bank lady yesterday saying that she herself not only had a LOC, but a mortgage.  Hm.... 
I think that the letter writer has more time than I do to correct her mistakes.  Yes, and we all make mistakes.  Retirement probably seems very far off (but is just around the corner for everyone)  She still has the instant &#039;gimmees&#039; and I have more than learned my lesson and am on the wagon, the straight and narrow as it were.  So wake up and smell the coffee girl!  This is your light bulb moment!
@Money Coach - I think if I had many debts (instead of one)
I would be tempted to alternate repaying them.  First the lowest to give myself the boost and incentive to keep going, then the one with the highest interest rate...etc.
I wish the couple luck in making their 180.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No aspersions from me.  I live in a glass house so won&#8217;t be throwing any stones.<br />
I have been actively trying to pay down our LOC.  Every little bit helps and encourages me.  It took time to accumulate the debt and I know it won&#8217;t go away overnight.  I had some pretty stupid years till I found Gail.  Found it interesting with the bank lady yesterday saying that she herself not only had a LOC, but a mortgage.  Hm&#8230;.<br />
I think that the letter writer has more time than I do to correct her mistakes.  Yes, and we all make mistakes.  Retirement probably seems very far off (but is just around the corner for everyone)  She still has the instant &#8216;gimmees&#8217; and I have more than learned my lesson and am on the wagon, the straight and narrow as it were.  So wake up and smell the coffee girl!  This is your light bulb moment!<br />
@Money Coach &#8211; I think if I had many debts (instead of one)<br />
I would be tempted to alternate repaying them.  First the lowest to give myself the boost and incentive to keep going, then the one with the highest interest rate&#8230;etc.<br />
I wish the couple luck in making their 180.</p>
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		<title>By: Marie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 22:32:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tara:
I once read someone&#039;s saying: &quot;Irritation is motivation&quot;.

Whether irritation is the trigger or something else is, my guess is that goals are the motivation that will make the journey complete.

So set up three columns:
1- Debt (list each creditor, the amount, the interest rate)
2- State your goals (list the goal, the timeline, the costs IF there is a cost associate with the goal)
3- List that for which you are grateful (this should help you illustrate your value system)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tara:<br />
I once read someone&#8217;s saying: &#8220;Irritation is motivation&#8221;.</p>
<p>Whether irritation is the trigger or something else is, my guess is that goals are the motivation that will make the journey complete.</p>
<p>So set up three columns:<br />
1- Debt (list each creditor, the amount, the interest rate)<br />
2- State your goals (list the goal, the timeline, the costs IF there is a cost associate with the goal)<br />
3- List that for which you are grateful (this should help you illustrate your value system)</p>
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		<title>By: Tara</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 22:17:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So many good comments on this post today!  I know for myself, it took a long time but when I finally got fed up with being broke all the time and constantly paying bills, after 43 years, I finally said enough was enough and cut up the credit cards.  I put shopping out of my mind and constantly tell myself, I already have everything I need, which is true.  I will have my debt paid off in 2 years, 8 months and 11 days, hopefully sooner if I get bonuses at work in the coming year.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So many good comments on this post today!  I know for myself, it took a long time but when I finally got fed up with being broke all the time and constantly paying bills, after 43 years, I finally said enough was enough and cut up the credit cards.  I put shopping out of my mind and constantly tell myself, I already have everything I need, which is true.  I will have my debt paid off in 2 years, 8 months and 11 days, hopefully sooner if I get bonuses at work in the coming year.</p>
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		<title>By: Pam</title>
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		<dc:creator>Pam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 20:00:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Erin - I here you there!  Board-game Thursday&#039;s are way better than Subway hands down!  (Though truthfully you&#039;ve made me hungry for Subway.  Good thing I&#039;m making crab ceasar salads for dinner and will get that out of my mind)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Erin &#8211; I here you there!  Board-game Thursday&#8217;s are way better than Subway hands down!  (Though truthfully you&#8217;ve made me hungry for Subway.  Good thing I&#8217;m making crab ceasar salads for dinner and will get that out of my mind)</p>
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		<title>By: Andrea</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andrea</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 19:55:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with Jay. The lady doesn&#039;t say the $1000 repayments monthly and the $35000. grand total debt is strictly from schooling debt. If she has 10 creditors, maybe 2 of those creditors are owed $750 each. In her situation, the debt is so ridiculously out-of-control already that if she can pay 2/10 creditors off in 2 months as opposed to the 36 mos. span-out plan then she&#039;s better off. In her situation, the SOONER THE BETTER. I know it&#039;s not smart to spend more on interest here or there, but in her case  the sooner she can eliminate that debt the more positively she&#039;ll see that this is working. She owes $35000.00, I doubt she cares about interest rate % at this point.

The point is to get out and stay out of debt, regardless of why it was racked up in the first place.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with Jay. The lady doesn&#8217;t say the $1000 repayments monthly and the $35000. grand total debt is strictly from schooling debt. If she has 10 creditors, maybe 2 of those creditors are owed $750 each. In her situation, the debt is so ridiculously out-of-control already that if she can pay 2/10 creditors off in 2 months as opposed to the 36 mos. span-out plan then she&#8217;s better off. In her situation, the SOONER THE BETTER. I know it&#8217;s not smart to spend more on interest here or there, but in her case  the sooner she can eliminate that debt the more positively she&#8217;ll see that this is working. She owes $35000.00, I doubt she cares about interest rate % at this point.</p>
<p>The point is to get out and stay out of debt, regardless of why it was racked up in the first place.</p>
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		<title>By: erin</title>
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		<dc:creator>erin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 19:17:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Pam-  I thought about Subway the other day, and everyday since...I am trying my best not go, because it will become a habit again!  I mentioned it to my husband and he wanted to go out too...but then I checked the bank balance and he had already went out for lunch and didn&#039;t  say anything!!  Oddly enough he had even went out to Subway.  

So now we are trying to think about board game Thursday&#039;s again...and make it a habit for our kids :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Pam-  I thought about Subway the other day, and everyday since&#8230;I am trying my best not go, because it will become a habit again!  I mentioned it to my husband and he wanted to go out too&#8230;but then I checked the bank balance and he had already went out for lunch and didn&#8217;t  say anything!!  Oddly enough he had even went out to Subway.  </p>
<p>So now we are trying to think about board game Thursday&#8217;s again&#8230;and make it a habit for our kids <img src='http://gailvazoxlade.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Fay</title>
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		<dc:creator>Fay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 19:10:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Money Coach,

I guess instant gratification got most  people into debt, so why not get that same instant gratification by using the snowball approach.  For the generation that only know to &quot;buy it now&quot;, instead of saving for it, this plan, may be the one they could stick to.  IMHO.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Money Coach,</p>
<p>I guess instant gratification got most  people into debt, so why not get that same instant gratification by using the snowball approach.  For the generation that only know to &#8220;buy it now&#8221;, instead of saving for it, this plan, may be the one they could stick to.  IMHO.</p>
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		<title>By: jay</title>
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		<dc:creator>jay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 19:02:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>People need to do what will work for them.

Maybe being incredibly non-rational and paying more money needlessly on interest will get them out of debt, and being rational and paying the highest interest rates first won&#039;t.  In that case, whatever works - go for it.

But creating your own milestones would be much, much smarter.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>People need to do what will work for them.</p>
<p>Maybe being incredibly non-rational and paying more money needlessly on interest will get them out of debt, and being rational and paying the highest interest rates first won&#8217;t.  In that case, whatever works &#8211; go for it.</p>
<p>But creating your own milestones would be much, much smarter.</p>
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		<title>By: Marie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 18:38:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Money Coach:
I don&#039;t agree with the snowball approach because it takes something that takes a LONG time to get rid of and makes it even LONGER and more costly.  With debt fatigue setting in...
This is why celebrating milestones is important!
The old themometer approach is great at reminding you that you are making progress.  This needs to be charted in order to be reminded. Celebrate every time the debt drops 20% (that is 5 celebrations over 3 years).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Money Coach:<br />
I don&#8217;t agree with the snowball approach because it takes something that takes a LONG time to get rid of and makes it even LONGER and more costly.  With debt fatigue setting in&#8230;<br />
This is why celebrating milestones is important!<br />
The old themometer approach is great at reminding you that you are making progress.  This needs to be charted in order to be reminded. Celebrate every time the debt drops 20% (that is 5 celebrations over 3 years).</p>
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