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		<title>By: Gwyneth</title>
		<link>http://gailvazoxlade.com/blog/archives/757/comment-page-1#comment-14564</link>
		<dc:creator>Gwyneth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2009 21:38:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello Gail,

I&#039;m sorry to hear that there won&#039;t be another planner; I didn&#039;t find out about this one until June, so I was waiting to buy one until 2010.  Have you thought about a self-published downloadable planner?  People could pay to download and then either work with it  on-screen or print out a paper copy, and you could control when it was available -- but I know that your publishing contract might thwart that idea even if you liked it.  

Thank you so much for the show and for this blog -- your ideas are so helpful!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Gail,</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sorry to hear that there won&#8217;t be another planner; I didn&#8217;t find out about this one until June, so I was waiting to buy one until 2010.  Have you thought about a self-published downloadable planner?  People could pay to download and then either work with it  on-screen or print out a paper copy, and you could control when it was available &#8212; but I know that your publishing contract might thwart that idea even if you liked it.  </p>
<p>Thank you so much for the show and for this blog &#8212; your ideas are so helpful!</p>
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		<title>By: Car</title>
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		<dc:creator>Car</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 15:48:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>*I would have easily spent 3x that buying them new.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>*I would have easily spent 3x that buying them new.</p>
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		<title>By: Car</title>
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		<dc:creator>Car</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 15:48:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have slowly changed my habits to save myself money.
- I&#039;ve been riding my bike to/from work instead of taking the bus.
- I don&#039;t own a car, so in the winter I will take the bus instead of driving, which saves a ton of money.
- I&#039;m spending more with cash instead of CC.
- Budgeting
- Planning purchases
- I read the flyers for the grocery stores and shop with a list, mostly buying things when they are on sale.
- I rarely ever buy myself clothes, so the last time I went shopping I spent an entire day at Value Village. I blew about $100 on clothes but I got so many pieces that I do wear. I would have easily spent 3x that
-I&#039;m currently working 2 part-time jobs but getting part-time hours even between the 2, so I&#039;ve been looking for something full-time and steady.
- I don&#039;t have cable. I watch my shows online or at my boyfriend&#039;s.

I&#039;m still in a bit of debt, but I&#039;ve been able to get my own apartment, fully furnish it, and much more. (aka all the things I neglected when I was a student) I feel like my life is finally together again and there&#039;s only one more step - getting rid of the credit cards!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have slowly changed my habits to save myself money.<br />
- I&#8217;ve been riding my bike to/from work instead of taking the bus.<br />
- I don&#8217;t own a car, so in the winter I will take the bus instead of driving, which saves a ton of money.<br />
- I&#8217;m spending more with cash instead of CC.<br />
- Budgeting<br />
- Planning purchases<br />
- I read the flyers for the grocery stores and shop with a list, mostly buying things when they are on sale.<br />
- I rarely ever buy myself clothes, so the last time I went shopping I spent an entire day at Value Village. I blew about $100 on clothes but I got so many pieces that I do wear. I would have easily spent 3x that<br />
-I&#8217;m currently working 2 part-time jobs but getting part-time hours even between the 2, so I&#8217;ve been looking for something full-time and steady.<br />
- I don&#8217;t have cable. I watch my shows online or at my boyfriend&#8217;s.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m still in a bit of debt, but I&#8217;ve been able to get my own apartment, fully furnish it, and much more. (aka all the things I neglected when I was a student) I feel like my life is finally together again and there&#8217;s only one more step &#8211; getting rid of the credit cards!</p>
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		<title>By: Maureen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maureen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 16:44:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sorry.  That line should have read - In our case to be out of debt in 3 years would have left us with about $1.95 to live on.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry.  That line should have read &#8211; In our case to be out of debt in 3 years would have left us with about $1.95 to live on.</p>
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		<title>By: Maureen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maureen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 16:32:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When we started to get out of debt it was the ALL plan.  We just threw everything we could at the debt without any real thought and certainly no time frame.  This of course left us financially strapped for the day to day living expenses and without the money to have even a small emergency fund.  Big mistake.  

We were quite miserable but survived because we were desperate.  We got caught up in the fear and then the frenzy to get it ALL  paid off as quickly as possible. Exhausting.  Eventually our lives became stabilized so we started paying about 25% towards debt (still too much) so we still failed at budgeting and saving still didn’t have a real time plan - just the idea to be debt free as soon as possible.  Of course in the beginning we didn’t know about Gail and what was possible so thought that possible meant until it got done. 

If I had to do it over again I would stick with Gail&#039;s budget chart of percentages.  By allowing 35% for housing, 15% for transportation, 25% for life, 10% for savings and 15% for debt repayment you get the job done but also get to live and save.  This is very important because the most important thing is not to add any more to your debt.  If your budget is too tight you will just end up making more debt sooner or later - unexpected increase in daily expenses or an emergency.  Of course the 15% debt repayment is just the planned monthly repayment.  You can always earn more to pay more – which should be part of any debt repayment plan anyways.

As soon as I learned about Gail we started following her budget percentages.  She wants every one to be out of debt in a maximum of 3 years which is ideal.  In our case to be out of debt in 3 years using the 15% debt repayment plan would have left us with about $1.95 to live on.  Using a 5 to 6 year plan gave us wiggle room to live and save.  Not ideal at all when you add up the interest but at least a plan.  In the end we did pay off our debts in approximately 3 years but we had to earn a lot of extras to boost the 15% monthly payment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When we started to get out of debt it was the ALL plan.  We just threw everything we could at the debt without any real thought and certainly no time frame.  This of course left us financially strapped for the day to day living expenses and without the money to have even a small emergency fund.  Big mistake.  </p>
<p>We were quite miserable but survived because we were desperate.  We got caught up in the fear and then the frenzy to get it ALL  paid off as quickly as possible. Exhausting.  Eventually our lives became stabilized so we started paying about 25% towards debt (still too much) so we still failed at budgeting and saving still didn’t have a real time plan &#8211; just the idea to be debt free as soon as possible.  Of course in the beginning we didn’t know about Gail and what was possible so thought that possible meant until it got done. </p>
<p>If I had to do it over again I would stick with Gail&#8217;s budget chart of percentages.  By allowing 35% for housing, 15% for transportation, 25% for life, 10% for savings and 15% for debt repayment you get the job done but also get to live and save.  This is very important because the most important thing is not to add any more to your debt.  If your budget is too tight you will just end up making more debt sooner or later &#8211; unexpected increase in daily expenses or an emergency.  Of course the 15% debt repayment is just the planned monthly repayment.  You can always earn more to pay more – which should be part of any debt repayment plan anyways.</p>
<p>As soon as I learned about Gail we started following her budget percentages.  She wants every one to be out of debt in a maximum of 3 years which is ideal.  In our case to be out of debt in 3 years using the 15% debt repayment plan would have left us with about $1.95 to live on.  Using a 5 to 6 year plan gave us wiggle room to live and save.  Not ideal at all when you add up the interest but at least a plan.  In the end we did pay off our debts in approximately 3 years but we had to earn a lot of extras to boost the 15% monthly payment.</p>
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		<title>By: dinah</title>
		<link>http://gailvazoxlade.com/blog/archives/757/comment-page-1#comment-14440</link>
		<dc:creator>dinah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 13:07:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hey gail,

i was thinking you could do a perpetual calendar.  one that doesn&#039;t have the year or the days of the week, simple july 7, july 8, july 9, etc.  that way if people bought it in may they could use right through to next april, y&#039;know?  &amp; perhaps the most frugal of us (hahaha) could reuse the calendar year after year. :P</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hey gail,</p>
<p>i was thinking you could do a perpetual calendar.  one that doesn&#8217;t have the year or the days of the week, simple july 7, july 8, july 9, etc.  that way if people bought it in may they could use right through to next april, y&#8217;know?  &amp; perhaps the most frugal of us (hahaha) could reuse the calendar year after year. <img src='http://gailvazoxlade.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Ajana</title>
		<link>http://gailvazoxlade.com/blog/archives/757/comment-page-1#comment-14433</link>
		<dc:creator>Ajana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 02:14:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>By following Gail&#039;s advice and making a budget, I am 52 days away from being debt free (yeah!). CC balances are zero or if I have to use them I transfer the money right away which I have set aside for the purchase. The great thing about a budget/plan/jars is/are that it disciplines you - me! - and helps you - me! - to see that the debt has an end. 

And in 53 days I will still come back to this website because I don&#039;t want to go backwards and Gail&#039;s advice will still be as relevant to me. Thanks Gail.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>By following Gail&#8217;s advice and making a budget, I am 52 days away from being debt free (yeah!). CC balances are zero or if I have to use them I transfer the money right away which I have set aside for the purchase. The great thing about a budget/plan/jars is/are that it disciplines you &#8211; me! &#8211; and helps you &#8211; me! &#8211; to see that the debt has an end. </p>
<p>And in 53 days I will still come back to this website because I don&#8217;t want to go backwards and Gail&#8217;s advice will still be as relevant to me. Thanks Gail.</p>
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		<title>By: Melanie Reformed Spender</title>
		<link>http://gailvazoxlade.com/blog/archives/757/comment-page-1#comment-14430</link>
		<dc:creator>Melanie Reformed Spender</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 21:36:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jessie: It looks like you need to get on the jar system.  Look in Gail&#039;s tools to get a handle on your finances.  I can speak from experience in saying that as long as you&#039;re still using the credit card for new purchases, the chances of paying it off are almost nil. 

If you have a working budget, you will not be strapped for cash and needing the credit card to fill in the gaps... that&#039;s what got us in the mess to begin with.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jessie: It looks like you need to get on the jar system.  Look in Gail&#8217;s tools to get a handle on your finances.  I can speak from experience in saying that as long as you&#8217;re still using the credit card for new purchases, the chances of paying it off are almost nil. </p>
<p>If you have a working budget, you will not be strapped for cash and needing the credit card to fill in the gaps&#8230; that&#8217;s what got us in the mess to begin with.</p>
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		<title>By: Cynthia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cynthia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 20:40:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My goal for 2009 was to get organized. My clothes, room and fiances. As I was coming up to the start of my contract and projecting the length my contract will be in 2 depts. I put in my budget the time I will be in between contracts. I am saving and repaying. My student loans will be paid of in 16 and 20 months and my cc in 7mths. I still am saving, er funding, and rrsping.  I have setup a direct transfer 2x month for my rrsp. I banked my tax refund in march for a trip that I am planning for March 2010.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My goal for 2009 was to get organized. My clothes, room and fiances. As I was coming up to the start of my contract and projecting the length my contract will be in 2 depts. I put in my budget the time I will be in between contracts. I am saving and repaying. My student loans will be paid of in 16 and 20 months and my cc in 7mths. I still am saving, er funding, and rrsping.  I have setup a direct transfer 2x month for my rrsp. I banked my tax refund in march for a trip that I am planning for March 2010.</p>
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		<title>By: Ina</title>
		<link>http://gailvazoxlade.com/blog/archives/757/comment-page-1#comment-14427</link>
		<dc:creator>Ina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 20:12:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Rachel! =) Oh yes, repeating, &quot;Do you really NEED this?&quot; has also helped tremendously!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Rachel! =) Oh yes, repeating, &#8220;Do you really NEED this?&#8221; has also helped tremendously!</p>
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		<title>By: Rhiannon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rhiannon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 20:04:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Are there things you’re spending money on that you consider “needs” that are really “wants?” Would you die if you didn’t have food? Yes. A need. Would you die if you didn’t have cable? No. A want.&quot;

That&#039;s a good point.  Many times, I&#039;ve seen people classify things that are really &quot;wants&quot; into &quot;needs&quot; simply beacsue they think that &quot;everyone else has it&quot; and secretly feel that their friends would abandon them and they&#039;d be social outcasts if they didn&#039;t have it.  

&quot;It&quot; can be anything:  a new car, a big house, that jacket everyone else has.  It can also be intangible: your cell phone plan, your cable costs, or your gym membership.  None of these are &quot;needs,&quot; yet it&#039;s amazing how many people will balk at the sugestion to cut them out.

Case in point:  Replace the word &quot;cable&quot; in the Gail&#039;s quote with &quot;Internet.&quot;  Would you die without internet access at home?  No.  A want.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Are there things you’re spending money on that you consider “needs” that are really “wants?” Would you die if you didn’t have food? Yes. A need. Would you die if you didn’t have cable? No. A want.&#8221;</p>
<p>That&#8217;s a good point.  Many times, I&#8217;ve seen people classify things that are really &#8220;wants&#8221; into &#8220;needs&#8221; simply beacsue they think that &#8220;everyone else has it&#8221; and secretly feel that their friends would abandon them and they&#8217;d be social outcasts if they didn&#8217;t have it.  </p>
<p>&#8220;It&#8221; can be anything:  a new car, a big house, that jacket everyone else has.  It can also be intangible: your cell phone plan, your cable costs, or your gym membership.  None of these are &#8220;needs,&#8221; yet it&#8217;s amazing how many people will balk at the sugestion to cut them out.</p>
<p>Case in point:  Replace the word &#8220;cable&#8221; in the Gail&#8217;s quote with &#8220;Internet.&#8221;  Would you die without internet access at home?  No.  A want.</p>
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		<title>By: Jenna</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jenna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 20:02:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A trick I&#039;ve learned is to have some things that rotate through my budget. For instance, one month I budget clothing in, the next month I budget personal care (really makeup and toiletries). I never spend as much on toiletries as I do on clothes, so I have some of the toiletries budget carry over to the next month&#039;s clothing budget. I don&#039;t think this would work for everyone, but for me it&#039;s worked because I found myself justifying overspending on clothes and toiletries far too easily because they&#039;re things that we actually do NEED (particularly for the kids, since they grow out of their stuff faster and I have less guilt about buying THEM things than I do bying myself things). It&#039;s just a question of WHEN we need them. 

Now, when I&#039;m tempted to blow my budget, I can tell myself &quot;well, my son still has that sweatshirt at home that will last him the rest of the month...maybe when I come back next month--when clothes are in the budget--this one will be on sale anyway.&quot; I have that date in mind (the first of the next month), so it&#039;s a more concrete goal than just &quot;I can&#039;t spend money on that.&quot; And if there&#039;s an article of clothing I feel I desperately need now, I take the money out of my &quot;allowance&quot; to get it (and it&#039;s still kindof a treat).
 
*shrug* Maybe I&#039;m weird...but it works for me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A trick I&#8217;ve learned is to have some things that rotate through my budget. For instance, one month I budget clothing in, the next month I budget personal care (really makeup and toiletries). I never spend as much on toiletries as I do on clothes, so I have some of the toiletries budget carry over to the next month&#8217;s clothing budget. I don&#8217;t think this would work for everyone, but for me it&#8217;s worked because I found myself justifying overspending on clothes and toiletries far too easily because they&#8217;re things that we actually do NEED (particularly for the kids, since they grow out of their stuff faster and I have less guilt about buying THEM things than I do bying myself things). It&#8217;s just a question of WHEN we need them. </p>
<p>Now, when I&#8217;m tempted to blow my budget, I can tell myself &#8220;well, my son still has that sweatshirt at home that will last him the rest of the month&#8230;maybe when I come back next month&#8211;when clothes are in the budget&#8211;this one will be on sale anyway.&#8221; I have that date in mind (the first of the next month), so it&#8217;s a more concrete goal than just &#8220;I can&#8217;t spend money on that.&#8221; And if there&#8217;s an article of clothing I feel I desperately need now, I take the money out of my &#8220;allowance&#8221; to get it (and it&#8217;s still kindof a treat).</p>
<p>*shrug* Maybe I&#8217;m weird&#8230;but it works for me.</p>
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		<title>By: Rachel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 19:19:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Jamie!</description>
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		<title>By: Jamie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jamie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 19:04:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Emma - Congrats on paying off the student loans, mine will be done in November (6 years after graduating, but 5 years ahead of schedule). We&#039;re planning a trip next year as 2 of the 4 debts will be paid off and the credit cards should be well down - paying for the trip in cash, of course! But, everyone needs downtime.

Rachel - unfortunately, I can&#039;t give out much information since I know they&#039;re not hiring anymore, but basically I twitter to get interest for a website. I found that job on craigslist under gigs. There are occasionally part-time online jobs that pop up there. Good luck!

The part of the budget that made it not work for me in the past, and give up on it, was that it was unrealistic. I thought that if I budgeted $0 for clothes and entertainment, then I would make sure that I didn&#039;t spend any money on them. HAH! That&#039;s not how budgets work. You have to track the spending on a regular basis and see what you&#039;re ACTUALLY spending on those categories and change your budget accordingly. As long as it balances and YOU DON&#039;T SPEND MORE THAN YOU MAKE, you&#039;ll be fine.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Emma &#8211; Congrats on paying off the student loans, mine will be done in November (6 years after graduating, but 5 years ahead of schedule). We&#8217;re planning a trip next year as 2 of the 4 debts will be paid off and the credit cards should be well down &#8211; paying for the trip in cash, of course! But, everyone needs downtime.</p>
<p>Rachel &#8211; unfortunately, I can&#8217;t give out much information since I know they&#8217;re not hiring anymore, but basically I twitter to get interest for a website. I found that job on craigslist under gigs. There are occasionally part-time online jobs that pop up there. Good luck!</p>
<p>The part of the budget that made it not work for me in the past, and give up on it, was that it was unrealistic. I thought that if I budgeted $0 for clothes and entertainment, then I would make sure that I didn&#8217;t spend any money on them. HAH! That&#8217;s not how budgets work. You have to track the spending on a regular basis and see what you&#8217;re ACTUALLY spending on those categories and change your budget accordingly. As long as it balances and YOU DON&#8217;T SPEND MORE THAN YOU MAKE, you&#8217;ll be fine.</p>
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		<title>By: Rachel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 18:33:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>YAY for you Ina!!!  Celebrating with you!</description>
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